Author: linlanconsult

Is it really that important to clear my upsets right away?I gained a great deal from the “breakfast reality show” I wrote about a couple weeks ago read it here, during which I consciously observed my children arguing, translated the main issues, and made affirmations...

Guidance from my Gurus: While holding a pom pom at a neighborhood soccer game: Tessa: “Can I be a cheerleader?” Me:  “Sure.” Tessa:  “So, when we are playing soccer and someone doesn’t want to do something, I can cheer them up.” ~Tessa, almost 4...

I often talk about doing our “work”—clearing out our negative patterns and limiting beliefs. We can do this in the moment of upset or after the fact. Though it can be challenging to clear our stuff in the moment, it’s certainly worth it. It may...

August Intention: Life is the curriculum through which I learn to know my True Self.  I am present in each moment to receive my lessons. If you’re truly seeking something new—a happier family, the best ways to help your kids, or a better understanding of your life’s...

Is it necessary to learn our biggest life lessons through trauma and difficulty?  No!  We can, but we don’t have to.How do I know this?  I have done both. For quite a while I believed in order to really get the lessons life had to...

July Intention: I celebrate my freedom.I am free to choose my own thoughts and feelings.I am free to be me!...